Those who know me, call me Jilly. My life is about wisdom and empowerment. I live to get it and share it. I believe a gift isn't really a gift until you give it away.
This is my gift. Coaching. Speaking. Teaching. Inspiring. I live to facilitate healing.
I am a proud mom of 2 young adults. I homeschooled my kids through the 8th grade. I love God. I love people. I have been financially successful and I have been bankrupt. I have lived on the East coast and the West. I love surfing, fast cars and I bought my first motorcycle at the age of 47!
When I was practically still a child, I married my high school sweetheart. After 22 years of marriage and heart-wrenching betrayal, we divorced.
In the spirit of radical personal responsibility I made a brave decision to take a long, hard look at myself. There were so many unanswered questions.
Was this narcissistic abuse?
Am I codependent?
What was my part in the failure of my marriage?
Why was I so needy? How did I give away all my power?
What were my beliefs about my worthiness?
If I was so unhappy, why did I stay so long?
Would I ever find the love I so desperately desired?
I left. It was the scariest decision I ever made. I was riddled with guilt for putting my kids through all of it. But here I am, years later. I can say with confidence it is THE BEST DECISION I ever made.
I had to step away to realize I had been engaged in some very toxic patterns all those years and I was a victim of verbal and emotional abuse. Rather than remaining in the victim role, I resolved to take full responsibility for all the ways I had created my life up to that point.
My coaching practice took a turn. I had to get the message out .
There is a beautiful life on the other side of trauma and abuse. If I can do it, so can you! It is my absolute purpose and passion to help other women along their journey.
I created programs specific to wherever you may be on the path. The tools and methods I teach work! I know because I used them in my own life. I can honestly say that my life is filled with ease, abundance and joy!
I am grateful for every step along the way. I have healed my heart from toxic relational patterns and the limiting beliefs that kept me in them. I now know what love is, because it lives inside of me.
If you are ready, I mean really ready to commit to the healing process and finding love, I know I can help you! Fill out my contact form, find me on Voxer @Coach Jilly or DM me on Instagram!