What's my story?
Those who know me, call me Jilly. My life is about wisdom and empowerment, I live to get it and share it. I believe a gift isn't really a gift until you give it away. This is my gift. Coaching. Speaking. Teaching. Inspiring. I am a proud mom of 2 teenagers. I homeschooled my kids through 8th grade. I love God. I love people. I have been financially successful and I have been bankrupt. I have lived on the East coast and the West. I love surfing, fast cars and I'm excited about getting my motorcycle license this year!
I married my high school sweetheart at 22 years old. After a series of life struggles I found out my husband of 20 plus years was cheating on me. While I stayed home supporting his business growth, homeschooling and raising our kids and keeping the home he was having affair after affair.
In the spirit of responsibility I made a brave decision to take a long, hard look at myself. There were so many unanswered questions. Why did I stay so long? What were my beliefs about my worthiness? Would I ever find the love I so desperately desired?
I left. It was the scariest decision I ever made. I was riddled with guilt for putting my kids through this. But here I am, years later. I can say with confidence it is THE BEST DECISION I ever made.
I had to step away to realize I had been married to a narcissist all those years and was a victim of abuse. Rather than remaining in the victim role, I resolved to take full responsibility for all the ways I had created my life up to that point.
My coaching practice took a turn. I had to get the message out . There is a beautiful life on the other side of trauma and abuse. If I can do it, so can you! It is my absolute joy and passion to help other women along their journey. I created programs specific to wherever you may be on the journey. The tools and methods I teach work! I know because I used them in my own life. I can honestly say the pain was worth it.
I am grateful for every step along the way. I have not only healed my heart from abuse and post traumatic infidelity syndrome and I have found LOVE!
I now consider myself a crusader for those affected and I will not stop. If you are ready, I mean really ready to commit to finding LOVE, I know I can help you. Let's walk together!