Those who know me, call me Jilly.  My life is about wisdom and empowerment.  I live to get it and share it. I believe a gift isn't really a gift until you give it away.  

 

This is my gift.  Coaching. Speaking. Teaching. Inspiring. I live to facilitate healing.

 

I am a proud mom of 2 young adults.  I homeschooled my kids through the 8th grade.  I love God. I love people. I have been financially successful and I have been bankrupt.  I have lived on the East coast and the West. I love surfing, fast cars and I bought my first motorcycle at the age of 47!

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When I was practically still a child, I married my high school sweetheart.  After 22 years of marriage and heart-wrenching betrayal, we divorced. 

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In the spirit of radical personal responsibility I made a brave decision to take a long, hard look at myself.  There were so many unanswered questions. 

How did I get here?

Am I codependent?  

What was my part in the failure of my marriage?  

Why was I so needy?  How did I give away all my power?  

What were my beliefs about my worthiness?

If I was so unhappy, why did I stay so long?  

Would I ever find the love I so desperately desired?  

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I left.  It was the scariest decision I ever made.  I was riddled with guilt for putting my kids through all of it.  But here I am, years later. I can say with confidence it is THE BEST DECISION I ever made.  

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I had to step away to realize I had been engaged in some very toxic patterns all those years and I didn't want to stay wrapped up in them.  Rather than remaining in the victim role, I resolved to take full responsibility for all the ways I had created my life up to that point.    

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My coaching practice took a turn.  I had to get the message out .

 

There is a beautiful life on the other side of betrayal and pain.  If I can do it, so can you! It is my absolute purpose and passion to help other women along their journey. 

 

The tools and methods I teach work! I know because I used them in my own life.  I can honestly say that my life is filled with ease, abundance and joy!  

 

I am grateful for every step along the way.  I have healed my heart from toxic relational patterns and the limiting beliefs that kept me in them.   I now know what love is, because it lives inside of me.

 

If you are ready, I mean really ready to commit to the healing process and finding love, I know I can help you!  Fill out my contact form,  find me on Voxer @Coach Jilly or DM me on Instagram!